Stop Playing Life On The Defense: Turn Adversity To Your Advantage with Brett Eaton
Season 1 | Episode 30
We had the pleasure of speaking with Life Optimization Coach, speaker, author, and podcast co-host, Brett Eaton about playing life on Offense.
With brimming energy and motivation, Brett talked about inspiring people to take action, building self-confidence, intentional goal-setting, and removing distractions so they can focus on the few things that make life fulfilling.
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Adversity now, Advantage later
The verse that says, “gold is tested by fire” holds a lot of meaning. For one, it is referring to the genuineness of faith. The same goes for a person’s character. The adversities and most challenging moments in our life are usually the most difficult times to go back and talk about in the open.
If we really think about it, we are all soldiers in the warzone, and battle scars are nothing to be ashamed of. Instead, we should take pride in them because if we look closer, they are the reason we become the real person that we are, stronger and wiser.
This week on the show, Brett Eaton will talk about how you can go straightforward and intentional about approaching life, coming out stronger after surviving adversities, being brutally aware of yourself, going about every little detail that will move you closer to fulfillment, and being crystal clear of what you want to achieve. And these come with the tagline, “Adversity now, advantage later.”
Brett mentions the top 3 things on how you can practice intentionally towards your goals and playing life on the offense:
1. Having brutal self-awareness
2. Choosing commitment over comfort
3. Setting measurable goals and tracking progress
These are the episode highlights you shouldn’t miss:
01:40 Brett’s journey to becoming a coach
04:08 The fundamental pillars of Brett’s coaching
07:58 The mindset and practices of high-performance achievers
11:50 How to nurture continued self-awareness intentionally
13:26 How to be more effective with time management and creating goals
15:36 What you can do to remove distractions and time-wasters so we can narrow down to things that we are really passionate about.
17:36 How to fill life with things that are energizing and less of what’s draining
17:47 How to turn adversity into an opportunity
20:41 How writing on paper can help one sort out the lessons from adversity
27:09 The analogy between dating and adversity
29:15 Why everyone has a certain level of confidence and how to keep building it
36:44 The daily habits that Brett follows
39:02 His definition of love
40:29 His secret to living a fulfilled life
42:06 What Brett wants his legacy to be
43:33 The most influential people in his life
45:51 How small changes can make great impact
Episode Challenge (20:41)
There is always a good thing that comes from the difficult moments in our life. Here’s a challenge for you. Find out what that is by writing down on paper your answers to the questions below.
Go back to the last five years of your life.
What is one of those really difficult moments in your life?
What did you learn from it?
How did you come out after you’ve gotten past that moment?
How do you think differently?
What part of you has become better?
If not from that moment, did you learn from people?
What was shifting perspective?
What did you learn to get through it? Because the gift could be in that.
If you try this exercise, let us know and tag us @iamclaudine and Marc Anthony at the @btopodcast.
About the Guest:
Brett Eaton is a Life Optimization Coach, speaker, author, owner, founder of The Better You Blueprint Coaching Program, and co-host of the podcast, The Better You Blueprint Podcast.
Brett believes that life is meant to be played on offense, not the defense. His goal is to help as many people as he can so they can create a life they are excited about. Brett’s superpower is helping men and women identify and prioritize their goals, and align them with their interests to create the life they truly want.
With the perfect mix of encouragement and tough love, Brett takes people from wishing, wanting, and waiting to prioritizing goals, taking action, sticking to their commitments, and reaching the next level of success.
Brett thrives on inspiring people to ask better questions, dig deeper, break out of their comfort zone, and create new standards for their life.
To learn more about Brett’s Coaching Programs or hire him to speak to your team, please visit, MotivatedByBrett.com.
Check out Brett's Better You Blueprint Coaching Program.
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Are you ready to commit to your future self---if you are, Marc Chiaramonte, a creative entrepreneur, coach, and adventure seeker, and Claudine Chiarmonte, psychotherapist, coach & joy creator, are ready to take you on a journey of self-discovery to unlock your highest potential! Join Breakthrough the Ordinary to reveal what awaits you on your next quest of exploration, bringing practical strategies, tools, and secret fairy dust that our guests, coaches, healers, entrepreneurs, and thought leaders, will be sharing with you! New episodes drop every MONDAY!
EPISODE CONTRIBUTORS
Claudine Chiarmonte, Marc Chiaramonte, Nick Chiarmonte, Rachel Mutuc, Brett Eaton